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Post by raid on Jun 10, 2009 20:35:17 GMT -5
I'm going to start this off really really simple. Well simple to me.
I feel very grown up for my age. I'm only 15, 9 months away from 16 but I feel and play that part of an 18 year old easily. My mom even thinks this of me but as far as my dad thinks I'm 11. I don't want to be all braggy but I'm pretty independent and make the right choices for the majority of the time. So I've had a really good friend. Like a really really good friend for the past couple of years and he's always been there for me but he graduated this year and something happened that I didn't think would. I've liked him forever, through my past boyfriends I've liked this kid and I've always thought he never liked me. Wellllllll I told him I liked him quite a few months ago.
MINTY you're friends with me on facebook don't pay attention to it I can't get on and change my relationship status to not in a relationship with that other kid haha so what you've seen ignore it.
Anyways I guess before I dive into this story I want to know what everybody really thinks of maturity and the differences in age between a 15 and a 18 year old and if that age gap really matters especially since I'm up to that maturity level easily. Feed back is great and plus I'll tell ppl what happened if if if if I get feed back.
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Post by burp on Jun 10, 2009 20:38:33 GMT -5
Hmm well I don't really know you yet because I'm fairly new here. But I say that if you think your up for whatever it is, then go for it. I think you have to trust yourself and be encouraged by other peoples advice.
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Post by coyote on Jun 10, 2009 20:41:54 GMT -5
I would just say to be careful. I know three years is pretty much nothing once you get out of college (my best friend's parents are 11 years apart) but while in highschool/college, it's a pretty darn big difference. I would be more worried if he was 15 and you were 18, since guys mature so much more slowly than girls do. But I mean...I don't know you at all. All I can say is to be careful, if you do decide to date him.
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Post by raid on Jun 10, 2009 20:44:36 GMT -5
Wellllllll
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Post by MiNTY♥ on Jun 11, 2009 2:11:54 GMT -5
Ok I wont =]
I think its sweet that you have liked him for so long, but maybe you could always ask him to wait a little but keep in touch with him, and maybe see how he feels later. Age differences always seem less when you are out of school, and if miht help your father who thinks you are an 11 year old. However, if you really wanted maybe your mum could win him over, thats what mothers do best right? So I agree with what Coyote is saying, but I am 99% sure you aren't some idiot who goes about getting high XDD
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Post by razz on Jun 12, 2009 7:30:23 GMT -5
Its ok if you guys take it slow I think but be weary when he goes to collage cuz sum chicks are easy and will tempt him. I was in th same situation as you until my bf cheated on me with a hoe. He was 19 and I was 16.if he will wait for you then he is a keeper.
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